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Q: VERY LONG BUT I RATE HIGH!
my dad. i dont know how to explain him.. he divorced my mom when i was 3 and i guess my mom walked out on me. she came back so now i see her every other weekend. my dad and her still fight sometimes and he gets frustrated with her easily. everyone at my dads house always says bad stuff about my mom, including my brother, so i defend her as best i can and my dad gets really angry. i live with him & my grandparents & my brother. i cry at least one time a day but i dont cut or anything like that. i just cry alot. hes very agressive, smokes, drinks, and takes pills. i dont know what to do though because im not sure why hes like this and he always takes it out on ME. i cant go to a psychiatrist because he wont let me or anything and i dont wanna tell the police or anything because he doesnt physically hurt me, only emotionally. oh and please dont tell me to talk it out with him because he will not do that :(
well if you have ANY advice then please help. & i am a 15/f if it changes anything :/
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Let me just say that you are strong for making it through the divorce. Any type of abuse is painful and leaves emotional, as well as subconcious scars. You need to talk to someone about it regularly...a close friend, religious leader, school counselor, family member, or even someone that you trust online at a sight like this one or elsewhere. Truse me when I say that wounds don't heal if they are constantly filled with lemon juice and hidden away. Talking with someone, the same someone is best, helps. It doesn't make the problem go away, but it gives you someone to help lift the load. (That does NOT make it a burden for them! It's just lightening your own!) I know cause I've been there. I had some problems and had to go through 3 years of counseling, even today it still hurts sometimes. And like you, my parents divorced when I was very young, 10 months old to be exact. Only it was my dad that left. It hurts, and it sucks. It seems that those of us that have divorced families have siblings and relatives with drug, alcohol, or other problems. It often comes as a result. It's good that you stick up for you mom though. Don't stop. You might stand alone, but at least there's someone standing up for her. I imagine that she has gone through a lot, and deserves some credit.
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I'm a very openminded person who loves to have fun and figure things out. I guess you could say I am a "deep thinker" because I actually enjoy thinking about the kind of things that no one else will mention because they're afraid of offending someone. I hope to one day, for at least a while, be an Advice Columnest for a large Newspaper or Magazine. And I figure, what could be a better way to learn how, and be truly comfortable with it then doing it?
I'm not here to judge you, I don't care if what you believe in isn't exactly the most widely accepted, or what your sexual preference is or anything like that. The only reason I'm here is to give advice.So ask me any kind of question, I am not specific on any particular topic, and then I'll tell you what I think.
Or, if you would prefer, you can e-mail me at Bekhales@yahoo.com
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 18 MSN: JadeBT1@hotmail.com Member Since: May 2, 2006 Answers: 32 Last Update: January 19, 2007 Visitors: 3498
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