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Q: F/13
Ok heres the low down this guy that i went out with for like a week went to this one dance without me (I couldnt make it) and then he called me on his cell and asked if he could dance wit someone cause i wasnt there and i said yeah cause I thought he ment one of my friends *we are all good friends* BUT he ment his ex and she was all over him and yeah i was angry
but over the weekend he kept asking if i had broke up and i never did but he called it off and he's been going out with his ex ever since *like 2 months ago

Now she told me they have broke up and im happy cause i wanted to get back together wit him but i was just starting to get over him and i dont know if he likes me any more even though my friends say he does and i dont want his ex to be mad at me cause shes a friend of mine What should I do?
should i forget about it or go for him ???? plz help i rate

First of all, that stuff sucks. But if his ex is one of your friends, then why was she all over him in the first place? She has no right to be mad at you when she was all over him when you guys were going out. But aside from that, if you really like him, then you should go for him, but I'd be careful about getting too involved too fast. Cause you never know...he might be a huge flirt, and that could have been the reason for her being all over him.

Rating: 3

thanx alot:)

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