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Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.
Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)
Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)
Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't surprised since she made is OBVIOUS!
But the problem is, she's ALOT prettier then me. She went out with more guys then I have. And most guys ask her out and everything. I'm just scared that maybe my crush might fall for her, and forget about me. I'm just scared if he DOES ask her out, that she's going to say yes.
I don't know what to do. My crush doesn't know I like him, and my friend likes him. I don't know what to tell my friend how I feel about this. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But it's really killing me. It gets me really mad, knowing that ALL the guys I thought is cute, or had a crush on, she happen to like them as well.
I don't know what to do anymore. Please help.
Sorry for this to be so long. But I need advice.
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I have been in this same situation many a time and am happy to give my advice from them.
In the past, i have tried different approaches and have dicovered the best way is to make sure your friend knows you like him, i know you said she knows, but tell her again. Ask her that if this guy ever asks her out, would she consider saying no. If the answer does not suit your needs. Then ask her which she prefers: her friendship with you, or a quick fling with this guy? That should get her.
I know you said that you dont want to ruin your friendship and nag or anythign, but it is the best way to go about it, the question above should stump her, and if she is worth your friendship she will choose the correct answer.
Just an add on, this guy, would you prefer him to find out you like him from rumours or through you? Just a thoguht, but if you like him enough, you will tell him you like him in THAT way but dont tell him your mate fancies him, jeep that hush!
And about the prettiness, i won a war with this friend of mine over a boy a few weeks ago, and if your guy is worth it then he will decide between you and your friend (if either) through personality, not looks.
He isn't worth it if he decides on looks and not personality and your mate isn't worth it if she puts a quick fling before your friendship.
A hint of advice on a related subject, make sure you be yourself around him, i know as it was a freindship beforehand you probably are, but dont change now.
Another pointer, he might not want to go ou twith either of you, remember, there are 2 friendships he could lose over a relationship with you or your friend.
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