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My name is Kambrey and I am a very oppinionated and strong willed person, however I am also very open-minded to new ways of thinking and others opinions. Being a minority where I live has helped open my eyes to the struggles of others. And since the minority I belong to is a religious one I am also very repectful of others beliefs, life styles and points of view. I know it's hard to be different sometimes, and even harder asking for help when your worried others are judging you. I'm NOT going to judge you. Period. My only purpose is to help. Feel free to hit me with ANY question you need help with! And to anyone reading my column with comments, oppinions or really any constructive critisism PLEASE let me know! Can't wait to hear from you! ~Kambrey
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Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.

Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)

Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)

Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't surprised since she made is OBVIOUS!

But the problem is, she's ALOT prettier then me. She went out with more guys then I have. And most guys ask her out and everything. I'm just scared that maybe my crush might fall for her, and forget about me. I'm just scared if he DOES ask her out, that she's going to say yes.

I don't know what to do. My crush doesn't know I like him, and my friend likes him. I don't know what to tell my friend how I feel about this. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But it's really killing me. It gets me really mad, knowing that ALL the guys I thought is cute, or had a crush on, she happen to like them as well.

I don't know what to do anymore. Please help.
Sorry for this to be so long. But I need advice.

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Dear Reader,
It seems to me that your friendship is already in danger. Her liking all the same guys as you is a bad trend, that could get you into serious trouble. You really just need to talk to your friend and explain how you feel. Don't beat around the bush, just be striaght forward with her. Matters of the heart are never better left unsaid.
As for your best friend being prettier then you, that is simply a matter of opinion. And even though this sounds lame, if you let yourself believe that then others will too. Besides most of the guys that I have talked to have said that looks take the back seat to good conversation and personality. I know it's easier said then done but if you take the innitiative to ask him on a date or to hang out with you sometime it will really impress him. Guys appreiciate the forwardness, and usually find it really hott. Besides you already have the upper-hand because you've built a friendship with him.
Talk to both of them, everything will work itself out from there.

What's meant to happen will happen.

~Kambrey

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