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Well my BEST FRIEND moved really far away about 2 years ago. We have still managed to stay very close. We only see each other once or twice a year though. Lately i feel liie she is forgetting about me. I feel like I am being replaced for her frinds down there. I mean i want her to make friends but i still want to be friends with her too. She never calls anymore so I end up calling her and she always says she cant talk and she'll call me back, but never does. So i stopped calling her just to see if she would stop and think that she hasnt talked to me in a while and should call or sumthing. It hasnt happend. I havent talked to her for about a week. So heres my question. Am i being totaly selfish about this? If so what is a better way to solve it. helpp please! What should i do?

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youre not being selfish at all. friends who move away are always going to loose touch a bit. start calling her back, and talk to her about it. tell her you feel like the two of you are drifting and try to set up a specific time each week that you two can call each other and talk. something that you guys arent aloud to skip or say that your too busy for. and/or write/email each other each week, a letter/email that you have to send. make it a rule between the both of you to promise to do this.

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