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Alright so hate to bug you guys with this problem because im sure you see it alot but i help people with theres so now its my turn to get some help.

there was one guy brad who i made out with while this other guy nate was in florida. nate and i tell each other we love each other but we were nothing offical when i made out with brad. ok. so me and nate are kinda crazy bout each other. and i havent spoken to brad after i made out with him. he just never called me.

thursday night nate calls me and we talk for about 3 hours. he asks me out. i say yes. we were suppossed to hang friday and he said hed call me round 8. he never called. i call his house round 11 his mom says hes sleeping and that shed tell him i called. i never get a call back. i call his house round 2 30 and his dad says he went out. since then, ive been doing everythign in my power to get in touch with him. he blocked me online for some reason and when i finally got in touch with him im like are you mad at me? and hes like no its nothing personal ill call you later though im at the mall. yeah um so how is this not personal?

question- why would he be doing this? how do i talk to him if im being avioded? should i end it or see if he can change it around? should i ignore back? HELP!!!

Okay, first things first. do you really like this guy? If so, then think of what he's been doing to you. He's been blowing you off and avoiding you. Do you think that's it's possible that he found out about Brad? For how you can talk to him, that's entirely up to you. Corner at school or something. Make sure that he has to listen to you. Don't listen to his excuses until after you have talked to him. Don't beleive most of his excuses. There really is no reason to be blown off like that. Also, think about how he's been acting, then think of the possibilities. He could have gotten together with somebody else, although that is unlikely. He should not be acting this way, however, no matter how "real" his excuse is. You really should end it, but only if you want to. After you have talked to him, what you need to do is reward yourself for speaking out. Go get a mani/pedi, go to the mall with your friends, have fun and just relax. That's the best advice I can give you.

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(Rating: 5) thanks... and i did end it he wasnt worth the pain he was putting me through
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