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Q: Well, i have had a friend for 1 1/2 years named "ally". i am asian, and only thought about my studies. "ally" is white. Well. back then when i met her, she only thought about studies too. Once she began 7th grade, she got all popular and preppy. She cared about her studies, but was more concerned with hanging out with popular girls, showing off and flirting with boys, and...SHOPPING. She also got so freaking dramatic and preppy...i didn't like it. I calmly told her about it and she was like "that's who i am, i can't help it". then we grew distant until she gave me a note expressing "her deep concern for our friendship". Now i don't know what to do. Naturally, i hate how she sort of ignores me to go flirt with other boys and forget me sometimes to hang with popular people. what should i do?

srry for the long question...but i really need help...

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Well that's who she is and she wants to be your friend...so I guess it's a matter of u can accept her for a friend as she is. You really can't change her

well, we are sort of good friends now. though my best friend is telling me that she is talking behind my back. =(.....thanks for helping

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