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I'm full of random information, and I've found it to be veryyy helpful giving advice =] Plus I have ALOT of life experience so I feel that I could really help with anything. I won't lecture or judge you, because I am really trying to help you and answer your question. I know everybody says this but I really have been through it all, from family, relationship, and health prolems - I've been there. I'm only 17 but I feel like everything I've been through has matured me beyond my years. Chances are I can relate to your problems and tell you what really works. Feel free to ask me anything and i'll get back to you as quickly as possible x3
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ok so this is part of a im that me and my bf had:
cutisammy:i think we should take somee timee off..
jeffinthe313:nope.
cutisammy:wut do you mean no? you cant just say no
jeffinthe313:i mean if we break up i will kill mi self so no
cutisammy:umm..sorry that you feel that way but uhh i really think we should have a break
jeffinthe313:bitch if you break up with me ill kill u then me..so dont fuckin think twice!
jeffinthe313:r you still breakin up wit me?
cutisammy:i g2g
woah. he like flipped out on me and he never did that before..i dunno what to do and im not goin to the po po (unless i really have to so please dont say that i should!)
ill rate 5s for anything!!
mucho love
oh yeah and my sn is CutiSammy and his is Jeffinthe313..lol just so you know!
Before you reject my advice i want to tell you that i once had an abusive bf. And he was absolutely wonderful all the time, unless i upset him then he went off the wall. First it started off when i got mad and tried to break up with him, he verbally abused me and i thought about telling somebody or really getting away from him but i remembered he was always really good to me before this so i blew it off, he said he was just upset. RThen overtime if i upset him, it got worse. He would threaten me, verbally abuse me, but he always appologized and promised he would never hit me or hurt me. Then one day he tried to push my off of a high railing and when he failed, pushed my down 2 stories of stairs. I broke my arm, anle, and had bruises all over. I was 15. [im 15 now still, but it happened 8 months ago] So please do not think this will not happen to you, that he is always sweet, if he really meant this then he has issues you have to separate yourself from, because these issues are real.
this really is not normal, in fat it is downright scary. But before taking any action be sure to talk to him in person and ask if he is serious, or tell him again you want to break up with him or "take soem time off". observe his reaction and if it is the same, you an't help him. To really mean that means he has serious mental issues and it is important that you understand that you cannot help him. It is important to take this conversaton as proof and go to the social worker's office at your school. This is the only thing you can do to handle this safely. But remember, before any course of action talk to him in person, eye to eye.
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