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Q: my boyfriend proposed to me last week... and i want to say yes ... but something doesnt seem right...
Like there are times when if we dissagree on a subject he will yell and scream ... even if he's completley wrong ...
Hes alaways accusing me of being unfaithful... and I never would do anything like that ...

if i don't want to have sex somehow he always guilts me into it ...
and he's even hit me a few times ...

I just want to know how i can bring these up to him without making him angry ... because i do love him ... im just sligltly bothered by these things ...

Katie
well, if he hits you and makes you do stuff you deff. should reconsider. like seriously, if he's like that then he will probably be an abusive husband. you should talk to someone close to you or talk to him about it calmly, if he gets upset then ignore him for awhile, defend yourself, and fight back. possibly take a few weeks off and see if you miss him and truely care about him. well if that didnt help, im sorry, if you need anything else feel free to ask.



-Mel.

thanks a bunch

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x0Mel
Im melissa. Theres alot more to me then people see. i love to write, read vogue, drink coffee and tea. im thirteen and pretty mature for my age. i dont have a boyfriend. ask me a question and ill do my best to help.

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