When it comes to relationships I've been through a lot. I used to be so desperate to be in one I'd get myself in the worst situations, but no matter how bad things were I got through them and now I'm in a loving, caring relationship and have been for almost two years.
I like to give honest, blunt advice and I won't write a book for an answer that can be summed up in two lines! I don't care about my rating, so I'll tell you the truth rather than what you want to hear. So if you don't like the harsh reality of what I'm going to tell you don't ask me private questions.
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everyone says that if you've been dating over 5 months you should have sex. i've been dating my bf for 7. no i dont want to have sex right now at this age. but my mom says she hopes/wants me to have sex AFTER or WHEN im married. i dont know if i can wait that long. but i dont want my mom not to trust me and get mad at me. help!! please! (link)
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That's stupid, some people wait years before they have sex with their partners. Don't listen to the others and don't give in to peer pressure. Have sex when you're ready and comfortable, when you want to not when anyone else says you have to.
Waiting until after marriage is unrealistic and can lead to people marrying young just so they can have sex. Your mom probably just doesn't want to see you get used or for religious reasons. As long as you're in a loving, committed relationship, you're ready and you use protection there's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. Your mom doesn't have to know about it.
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