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Hey this is angelwings saying if you need advice don't be afraid to ask. Anything goes, if you're not ashamed to ask it im not afriad to reply to it. If you feel you can't talk to anyone around you remember you always got me.
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well i have this problem..i really hate myself i think i'm stupid fat and totally ugly! my mom always tells me i'm not and i'm soooo pretty but i think she's just saying that cause she's my mom! and well a lot of grown up's are also telling me i'm the most pretty girl the've ever seen but in my school people always tell me i'm ugly except my best friend but i think she's also just saying that cause she's my friend! and i really dont get it .. all the grown up people think i'm soo pretty and they tell me that when im not even asking! but in school everybody says im ugly and everytime i look in the mirrow i start crying! i dont know whats wrong with me! i wanna like me but i really hate me! can anybody tell me how i get myself to like me again? please!!!!! i'll rate high for good advice
Sorry to tell you but no one can tell you how to like yourself. It is in your own mind why you are unhappy. You say all the grown ups say your pretty but the kids at school don't, but it doesn't matter. You shouldn't need any one to make you feel beautiful. You should know you are. True beauty is not outward but whats in your heart and your character. If people can't see how wonderful you are then thats their problem and you'll be better off without them in your life. You need people in your life that motivate you and make you feel good, like your friend. These people who call you ugly are just self centered and don't care about how they make you feel, but you know what, they won't ever find anyone who loves them for the person they are and not just what they see, they don't have your potential. Besides, after high school you probably won't ever see those people again in life and then their opinon won't even matter. You find some one who loves you and appreciates you the way you are, beautiful on the inside and out. Those are the people and opinions you'll cherish in life. Those are the one's that matter. Trut me you are as beautiful as anyone else and don't let anyone tell you differently, not even yourself.
Good Luck. I hope you realize how special you really are.
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much!! xxx