Im a guy who has experienced a lot of things in his short life, ask away if i can help, i will.
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Hi! Yes, this is another relationship question... but it is different, so stay with me! Just read over my situation and tell me what you think! I'm 20/f by the way! Thanks! :)
When I was a senior in high school I met a guy, and we hit it off really well and ended up in a 2 year relationship. We broke up at the beginning of my 2nd year of college because we began to fight a good bit. We fought because I wanted to experience the single college life, and he was a year older than me, but not in college, and didn't know what he wanted to do with his life. We stopped talking for 4 months, and it was very hard at first but we both got over it after we cut off all contact. In December he left for the Army, and he called me to tell me. I wrote him a letter, and he called me. 4 months later, we now talk on the phone all the time. He is currently stationed about 700 miles from me, and is getting deported overseas soon. But our feelings for one another have come back in full swing now that we talk all the time. The differences we had are no longer there. We always say how we miss one another and this and that... but we both know that a long distance relationship for the next 4 years while he's in the army is unrealistic.
So basically our plan is to contunue talking, and emailing, and he will come home and visit as much as he can... and when he is home we will basically be together all the time, have sex... basically act like a couple. We can both see each other married in a couple of years, but do you think this is a good idea? We really care for each other, but is this worth it if it's going to make our lives so much harder? I mean it will be so hard having to see him for a few days, and then watching him leave for months. Do you think it is a good idea, or do you think cutting off all contact and taking the "easy way out" would be better? What would be the best thing for us? I appreciate your opinions... thank you! (link)
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Well i can honestly say that im kind off in the same boat right now, minus the long distance. Me and my gf of 3 years broke up because of schooling reasons, she was almost done university and i got kicked out. So to make a long story short, we cut all ties, minus the phone once in a while, its been 3 months and we are now talking a litle more everyday....I can honestly see myself with her forever cause i love her, and as much as people tell me to get over her and get with some one else i refuse to do it because like i said this girl i smy soulmate....All im saying is a few years from now when i get married to this girl i will look back and realize that every litle sacrifice was worth it at the end...If you really feel for this guy, dont let distance get in the way of what might eventually turn out to be a life long commitment...Love is a hard game to play, however if the right partner has been found, fight like there is no tomorrow to make it last.
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