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The Names Nesmira. I turned 15 on Dec. 13th (: Yay me, but kinda sucks becuase i still didnt get my Permit. GAY? yes i no. Anyway I have blonde hair and blue eyes. (: I am 100% Bosnian [muslim] and veryy proud of that. you wanna hate knock yourselves out, dont bother me. =p Well im currently a Sophmore at Bayless Sr. High [class of `10 baby] (: It may be a pretty small school and not the riches but hey its amazing (:. My all time favorite sport is Basketball i loooveee it. i also enjoy playin volleyball and soccer, but it sucks becuase i cant play soccer anymore. :( and i hate it. Well im orginally from Srebrenica, Bosnia but i currenly live in Saint Louis (: i love my family & friends, they are amazing. [mina, ajsa, amela t, azra, edina , vildana] i dont know what i would do without these girls. esp the boznian mobn [mina.amela t. & azra] ♥ life would most definetly suck without them. Well ya i love all my other friends, you know who yu are. (: well um i dont care what you thnk of me or what i do, its just your opinion. i love to have fun, laugh and make others laugh. i`M very nice unless you piss me off then i can be the biggest biotch. ever. that just how it goes.




LIKES: chocolate, traveling, shoes & clothes , movies, myspacing, soccer guys, (: music, shopping, SUMMER, being European, animals, people who can make me laugh, people who love to have fun, moneey (: , televsion, computer, PHONE, aim, BOSNA, my amazing friends, hanging out with friends, BERIX, bosnian food (;, McDonadls, BASKETBALL, soccer, volleyball, being acctive, the beach, swimming, tanning, fashion, taking random pictures, swings, rollercoaster, coloring, make-up, ribbons, flip flops, black & white pictures, oversized sunglasses, strawberries, GUM, cookies (:, Nicole Richie, Paris Hilton, ANGLINA JOLIE, Paul walker, Christiano Ronaldo, (: && most def. Channingg Tattummmmmm (: , ONE TREE HILL, Passions, The Hills, Laguna Beach, real friends & muccccchhh more..


DISLIKES: Fake friends, biotches, stupid commercials, being bored, bugs, heights, feet, blood eww, Chain Letters, two faced people, white socks, TENNIS SHOES ugh, wanna bew`s, when people change soo quickly, sea food, homework, winter- even tho its pretty soemtimes, cheesy songs ugh, when poeple put others down.


OK well tthat`s more then enough. dont be shyt to Ask me anything, i will answer the best i can (:

♥ Nesmira

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Hi! Yes, this is another relationship question... but it is different, so stay with me! Just read over my situation and tell me what you think! I'm 20/f by the way! Thanks! :)

When I was a senior in high school I met a guy, and we hit it off really well and ended up in a 2 year relationship. We broke up at the beginning of my 2nd year of college because we began to fight a good bit. We fought because I wanted to experience the single college life, and he was a year older than me, but not in college, and didn't know what he wanted to do with his life. We stopped talking for 4 months, and it was very hard at first but we both got over it after we cut off all contact. In December he left for the Army, and he called me to tell me. I wrote him a letter, and he called me. 4 months later, we now talk on the phone all the time. He is currently stationed about 700 miles from me, and is getting deported overseas soon. But our feelings for one another have come back in full swing now that we talk all the time. The differences we had are no longer there. We always say how we miss one another and this and that... but we both know that a long distance relationship for the next 4 years while he's in the army is unrealistic.

So basically our plan is to contunue talking, and emailing, and he will come home and visit as much as he can... and when he is home we will basically be together all the time, have sex... basically act like a couple. We can both see each other married in a couple of years, but do you think this is a good idea? We really care for each other, but is this worth it if it's going to make our lives so much harder? I mean it will be so hard having to see him for a few days, and then watching him leave for months. Do you think it is a good idea, or do you think cutting off all contact and taking the "easy way out" would be better? What would be the best thing for us? I appreciate your opinions... thank you!

i think if you relly love him then like the long distance doesnt matter much.. like you've been with him for 2 years as you say or w.e n then yu broke up nd now are practically a couple then you probably like him lots.. and iif youy think that you two can deal with the distance.. n every relationship has itz ups and downs as you no.. so you should give it a try but then like 4 years is a long time.. but when you with him you know how it makes you feel..
so just think about how you would feel it you were together and then if you weren't..
so you have to decide if this distance will affect you and your life..
&hoPe i HeLPed.
-nEsmiira

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