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IM 15/f and i really like this kid who has a gf and turns 18 today. i've practicaly changed part of my life to win him over. I think i;m going to give up b/c he has a gf. i talked to him a while ago. i was stupid last month and told him i loved him. he said he kinda liked me but he has a gf. she is 17. I started to dress different and listen to different music and like different things. do you think i should give up on him and just stop thinking/talking to him/seeing him. or should i act like everything is fine? he is going to help me this summer to helo me join the basketball team next year. im rly excited. i dont know what to do though b/c everytime i see him or talk to him i fall in love with him again. he flirts with me and everything and i love it. but, i dont know if i can do it anymore. so do you think i should forget all about him and move on or should i just continue getting my heart broken when i see him and just wait for something to finally happen? i rate good answers.
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ok so say you win him, he dumps his current girl for you etc. well whats to stop him from doing it again? He could drop you like a hot coal for the next girl who professes her undying love to him. Also, a big warning sign in your head should go off when you begin changing yourself to make someone like you. Don't conform to what he likes, be your own person. Don't you want him to like YOU! What is going to happen when you decide your sick of pretending to be someone your not, i'd focus more on finding i guy who would love you for you, only have eyes for you, and who wouldn't want you to change for him. Your probably more attracted to this guy than in love with him anyway. There are plenty of fish in the sea, find one who will love you, respect you, and take care of you. By the way stop going after guys who you can't have (aka involved, dating, married especially) you only set yourself up for dissapointment, and how would you like it if a girl kept throwing herself at your boyfreind. You can tell a lot about a guy from his past realationships, and how he treated his other girlfriends, if you don't want the treatment he gives his current girl why would he treat you differently. Is he polite, does he open the door for her? or walk down the stairs infront of her incase she falls... think about it a little.
hope this helps
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