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Q: Me and my boyfriend are going through really hard times right now. He keeps telling me how he's too busy to talk or too tired to even figure things out. And I feel like I've just been the one to deal with his bad moods lately. Last night I was explaining to him how hurt I was about the fact that I was crying and all he could talk about was how tired he was about it. He just said that he just can't deal with all of this, so I told him that he doesn't have to deal with me anymore and we hung up. I'm always the one to come back to him after a fight. So, this time I'm letting him make the move. He's called twice tonight and I didn't answer because I just think he needs more room.

So my questions are: If he really cares about me, will he still keep calling to prove that he does want this to work?

How will I know that he really does want this to work?

Should I give him time? because I really don't want to be hurt anymore by the fact that he doesn't want to talk lately.

I need some advice, I will rate to let you know what I think

In my personal opinion, i would say that this guy should come over to cheer you up-not just call you, that could get annoying. it would also be nice if he brought something special with him for you-that would show how much he really cares.

Or, maybe he really is tired a lot lately and he could take some time off of work or whatever and yins could take a day just to relax and have fun, and talk about the way things have been going lately. Maybe he will apologize and come back to you.

But remember, if he really does care about you, he will not just give up and not call you or come to see you, he will do whatever he can so that you can forgive him and start over again.

hope it works:)

Rating: 5

I believe that he shouldn't give up on me if he truly wants this to work, I agree and needed to know for sure if my instincts were true. Thanks.

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