There's a lot that I think qualifies me to help people and give good advice.
Firstly, I'm bi polar and I live with that every day. I also have arthritis and IBS.
I am a young parent, and polyamorous.
I have complex relationships, and I am an emotional person.
I can give rational advice to other people because I have learned from my mistakes. I've had a plethora of bad relationships, and it's taken me years to find people who are good for me.
I have, always have had, and probably always will have body image issues. I am multi pierced and tattooed, and fascinated by body modification. I am happy with anything that anyone does to express themselves, provided it is safe and ethical.
I believe a well lived life is one that is happy, regardless of money and status.
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I guess this isnt really a question, more of an opinion and/or your relation or differences to this topic. Its about my parents control over me..they dont care what I do. Ever. 15/F. Chicago. I have no curfew..weekday or weekend, no 'chores', they don't care who i'm hanging around with, my mom knows i smoke marijuana. I can, and do, leave the house for days without them calling my cell phone and asking what i'm doing and where I am. I've left the town and state for days numerous times. I get good grades in my private school though and only got in trouble with the police once. I think i'm a pretty good kid. I am going to ozzfest this year and they dont care. I'm always in bad neighborhoods and whatnot. So, basically, whats your opinions on my parents? I dont think theyre being very resposible. (link)
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Okay, time for the truth:
You may still be a minor, but you're 15 years old. You seem intelligent, and you know better than to act like a tearaway. Yes, your parents are responsible for setting guidelines and boundaries, but you are also responsible for your own actions as well.
Your parents may be being liberal with you because they fear being too strict, as their parents may have been with them. I am liberal with my son. Children just need to be taught to respect this freedom and act in a sensible and rational manner.
You seem like you are doing fairly well despite your rebellious attitude. I'd advise you to take several steps:
- Stop smoking marijuana. It fucks you up. It doesn't matter how good your grades are now, if you continue using marijuana regularly they will become less so. It is damaging to your health when used regularly. Occasional recreational use is fine, provided you keep it as that.
- Stop trying to blame your parents for your shortcomings. Once you hit puberty, you have more say over your actions than they do. Don't act like an ass.
- Have respect for the law. Getting into trouble with the police may seem cool. But believe me, it will seem less so when you are kicked out of school or locked up in jail.
- Offer to do chores. I know it's against human nature to do extra work, but maybe it will encourage your parents to have a good opinion of you and interact with you better.
If all else fails, express concerns to your parents.
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