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Q: Hey there. Well ill get straight to it. Im 14 years old, and im a devoted christian. Thing is i was born into christianity but my family are backsliders so now im back into church. Before church i dressed..sorta punk (i really dislike labels) anyways when i became christian, i somehow became involved with rap? because of some of the boys at my church. *bad influences* but now im back to my normal self liking everything i like..but i dont know how i want to be anymore! I have to wear skirts all the time..i like this guy that goes to a dif church..and he doesnt seem to like either..ugh im so confused. anyone who took the time to read this and reply, i def. will rate high.
Well I can't say sstop church because god is the best person you can have. I'm not a christian and I also get steriotyped into groups. Ok I'm a muslim rite so people think you can't do special things like go limin and partyin. When I do these things I don't goo of my word by drinkin or smoking I jus am there to enjoy and have a little fun. Just because you're a christian doesn't mean you have to cut back or things just know your limit. You say you have to wear skirts all the time...why can't you wear a long baggy jeans? Anyway I think you should be your christian self but do a little justice to yourself.
I'm 14 too and I know that people are rarely conused about these things so I think you should jus make a decision you agree with. Basically what I'm saying is be a christian but you can do some fun things (music, clothes) but have your limit!
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i promised i would rate high, but really i said i was a DEVOTED christian. and if you know alittle about christianity i dont wear skirts because in the bible god simply states for women, to not dress like men.

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