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There is a guy I really like (who also has the slight potential of liking me back). He's very funny and actually very polite and nice. However, he doesn't seem to be a very devout Christian, because he cusses. Even though I cuss sometimes, I feel like he may have a bad influence on me in that way, and I know from Bible study that I'm supposed to surround myself with people who share my beliefs and are going to be a good influence. But there seems to be something wrong with that, because if I cuss now and then, I may be a kind of bad influence on others too, and they wouldn't want to be around ME either. I guess what I'm trying to ask is...would it be okay to continue to flirt with this guy and (if it works out right) date him? Sorry, this was kind of long and confusing... btw, I'm almost 16, if that helps any.

ok either you like him or you dont. If you dont , dont lead him on. If you do does the fact that he "cuses" or isnt a "devout chrsitain" really that much of an issue? if your goin to like aperson like them for who they are, be open to beng with people of other religions or ways of thinking. In the end it helps make yourself a better person. Religion isnt everything, and it shouldnt be a factor of who you do and dont hang out with.

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(Rating: 2) Sorry, but religion IS a big issue to me. I like to be on the same page as my significant other, and it is kind of a requirement in my religion to marry someone else who is of my religion. Every religion has its own rules, and I don't see why Christianity is bashed so much more often than others.
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