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Hello,
I am a 13 year old girl. I have a Best Friend of 8 years. I love her to death, but she gets mad at me for no reason sometimes. She'll get mad at me, and make me upset in the beginning of the day, and then will talk to other girls about me during the day, then the next morning will act like she didnt do anything to me. Although I am soo hurt inside, and I feel like crumbling up and dieing. She does this constantly. I always try to tell her how I feel about all this but she always yells at me and gets more angry at me. She doesn't know how to except my feelings. She always talks about herself too. Every word from her mouth is about HER HER HER! Everytime I bring something about me, and my life, she immediately changes the subject.
How can I fix this problem, without loosing one of my BEST FRIENDS?
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It's not a fixable problem. She's not one of your best friends - because a true best friend would never, ever, ever do that to you.
I know, because I had a friend exactly like that and I put up with it from age 12 to 29!! She always had to be in front, had dated every guy I ever dated in HS and would tell people stupid embarrassing stories about me, to make me look dumb and her look "cool."
Ultimately she is jealous of you and true friends aren't like that either! I know you think our ages are so different, but girls go through lots of the same issues. I finally said I didn't want to talk to her anymore... and closed that chapter. The thing that brought it to a complete finish? She was totally upset that SHE wasn't the center of attention at MY husbands funeral.
Lose this "friend" now or deal with it for another 10 years... the end result will be the same.
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this advice was very good. and i love my friend soo much that i just CANNOT give her up. my friend is always the center of attention. and i told her that, and she said shell try to stp doing that. so thanks for wonderful advice.
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