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Q: I come on here and I always give advice but this time I am asking for advice. I have always been good at giving advice but as most people know for most people it is hard to come up with advice for theirself. There is this person who I use to date. The only reason we broke up is because we both got busy in our own lives. I love this person and their son with all of my heart and soul. They are my life eventhough we aren't together. Well about every couple months this person comes to me and tells me they still love me, they remember all the times we spent together, all the things we did together, how I used to hold them in my arms, how they held me and we took care of the other one when they were sick. They even said the dream about me. Since we broke up we have stayed in contact and we talk all the time. They do all of this even if they are in another relationship and the same goes for me. I have tried to be in other relationships, tried to love other people and just couldn't do it because my heart and mind is always on my ex. Both of us are always making comments about how we are both in a relationship why does it always work out this way. Well now we are both single but my ex says they are swearing off relationships. I guess my ex is tired of getting hurt eventhough I have never hurt my ex and have always loved that person and their son. My ex knows I still feel this way but still says they are staying single. So knowing how I feel and how they feel about me should I remain patient? if not, any suggestions on how to get over my ex? This whole thing has been going on for like over a year now. And I am heart broken because we are not together. I am a 24 year old female. I would appreciate any help and I am sorry this is so long. Thanks Fiesty
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Well this seems like a very big problem and you dont want to do the wrong thing to where you end up losing this other person even as a friend. But if I was in your place I would wait because you really sound like you love this person if you have waited this long I am not saying wait forever but talk to them and slowly try to move in if you start to show your feelings instead of say them then this person wont be able to resist but dont try to make it fast if you really love this person then be patient but still dont sit around try to move in slowly by talks and just hanging out a lot.
Well good luck,
I hoped I helped
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Thank you so much for the advice. I really do love this person, I even made a myspace page all about them. I appreciate everything you said.
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I am cooky crazy and I love to party and have fun. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I am kinda short. When I get older I hope to become a therapist so I can give everyone advice because that is what I love to do. I am in the 10th grade. Sometimes I can be real jealous about dumb things. I give great advice. And I even can say dumb things that make no sense. But over all I am a great person, advice giver, and friend. If you don't like me then good for you but I love me
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Illinois Occupation: School Age: 15 Yahoo: Member Since: March 10, 2006 Answers: 78 Last Update: September 2, 2006 Visitors: 7807
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