Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.
Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.
Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.
SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
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So, my partner's parents/family have 'seen the bruises' and now think I'm some vest-wearing wifebeater and have 'warned me'.
How on earth do I tactfully explain what's really going on before I get the rozzers called on me?
I don't think they'll appreciate the honest truth about what their 'little princess' likes in bed somehow...
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Awful and delicate situation, help! (link)
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Dear Clash,
I know what you mean, this happened to me when my gf and I moved in together years ago. They saw a bruise on her side when she was wearing a tank top and her father confronted me like your situation. If you live together invite them over (this is what I did) and I had a paddle and whip placed in two visible places so that her parents would see them and when we were close enough I gently said sometimes you gotta spice it up. After that they got what the bruises were from. You could try that or if you aren't separate talk to your girl and let her know her parents curiosity and when we talked with them we let them know there is no abuse but tactfull experimentation.
Christopher Lee Espinoza
Ps: Hope this helps, I know the situation to well and how hard it is to convince people of the truth
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This would normally be fantastic advice, but her parents are staunchly catholic and I'm already down points for being an older man. I'd get burned at the stake. Thanks though!
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