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My boyfriend and I have been going out for half a year and I gave my virginity to him. He said that he was a virgin also. I feel that he was lying to me about being a virgin. I don't know what I should do to confront him with my thoughts. He seems to know too much about Sex to be a virgin.. I think he lied to me so I would sleep with him. How can I ask him about it without hurting his feelings?
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hmmm the very 1st time you two had sex, how long did he last? less than 5 mins he prolly was a virgin. he may know alot about it from pornoghraphy. if your really having doubts you should ask him about it, it may seem harsh but if you want a good relationship honesty is key. plus if you really feel like he lied about something that big, if you never know for sure youll always have problems trusting him. i think its best to just calmly ask him, if he had any prior experience, try asking how far have you gone before we got together. maybe hes experienced in other aspects, without penetration. dont be afraid to ask, you have a right to know, if hes mature enough for sex he should be able to talk about it with you. hopefully your fears will amount to nothing, but you shouldent have to wonder about something like that, if he asks why you dont believe him, just tell him the truth, that he just seems to know alot about it.
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