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i dont want this to sound really pathetic but i dont have any friends! at the start of this year i went off to college without all my old mates and now they dont talk to me and i havent made any new ones.. i have tried to make new friends but it hasnt worked. im not very confident and i am really shy, has anyone got any tips on how to 'fit in' a bit more and make new friends? thanks x (link)
I don't think you should try and "fit in."
Make sure that you stay true to who you are. You don't want to give of vibes that you are someone that you aren't.

Most people are more comfortable making friends with people who look easy to approach. So you should try not to give off mean vibes.

You could also be the one doing the approaching. Walk up to person and introduce yourself.
"Hi my name is ____, what's yours?"
Then build up a conversation from that. State your major, what you like to do, etc. Whatever you are comfortable saying you should say.


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