i am Bianca Zablan...
plain and simple...
but i like playing the guitar...
i like all music...
music is my language...
music controls my life...
my life is what is my rythym
that's me
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My mother is having an affair, thing is. If she gets caught by my step-father, he will kick both her and me out. I have two years of school left, and I need to get good grades to get into further study because i dont have much $$. How do i convince her that she's gambling with my entire future? (link)
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let's say that's your given position...
on the side of your step-dad:
i would get really mad if my wife REALLY has an affair with another man... i won't blame him!... but consider this, are they really having an affair?!
on the side of your mother:
don't you know you're cheating on your husband?! alright, w make a lot of mistakes on our life... but do we have to risk our marital relationship to please ourselves?
on the side of your mom's other one:
SCREW YOU! don't you know she's taken?!
on your side:
i'd consider first the fact that my mother is cheating on my step-dad rather than your schooling coz this has a greater impact on YOU!
ADVICE:
i suggest that you should keep this as secret as possible to your step-dad... help your mom... but you have to confront your mom and tell her on what she is doing (and that is cheating on your step-dad)... let your mom tell your step-dad coz on this way, you won't get caught... part of being married are obstacles like this one... let them fix these problems... don't butt in... it's their responsibility not to let YOU carry burdens such as these...
tnx
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so your step-dad deserves it...
ask yourself "is it right that you will cheat on your husband?!"...
tell your mom to confront your step-dad before everything is too late...
don't hesitate to talk to her...
communication is good for the couple and the soul
-BiAnCa-
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my step-dad kinda deserves it. I mean, he neverrr shows her any attention, and this new guy does. He buys her stuff. I guess she's lonely and wants attention, so i guess i understand her.
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