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Q: I'm 13 and a female last year i hit a swore at this kid because he called me fat.Well sence then i've been talking to tuckermen(the boy i hit)We have gotten closer but not like close close like a fun talk and stuff.Alot of stupid stuff happened(nothing inportant with other friends)I started crying.I hate crying infront of people .I know it not a sigh a weakness but it still uh i just dont like to.The teacher asked alot of questions and i always gave little information.Then tuckermen asked.I liked it.He cared.I went to class still blinking back my tears.He kept looking at me every 5 minites smileing.It cheered me up.I cant like him.I cant im 130 pounds and a pot belly.Ive never had a boyfriend.I know atleast when he called me fat that he didnt like me.I liked that he cared so much.I cant like him.

do i????
please help.

Okay. first off, 130 isnt that much, depending on your height. If you are 5 ft or less, then you are over weight. But if you are over 5 feet, you are exactly where you need to be. And if you are over 5'10, then you are underweight. If you are an average height, then you are at a perfect weight. Don't believe me? Go here: http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm
Oh, and I am 13 and never had a boyfriend either. Its really not a big deal, you will get a boyfriend sooner or later. You just need to find the right guy. Maybe this Tuckermen is the right guy??? if you like him, dont deny it. It sounds like he is flirting a bit, or at least wants to be your friend, so take him up on it. Ask him out. If he says no.. its okay, life will go on. If you know you dont like him, then dont ask him out. Just be friendly, so the opportunity will always be open.

Rating: 5

i could never ask tuckermne out just saying that sraight up NEVER sorry im not trying to sound rude.I feal realy low with my self asteam and just no but thankz

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