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Whenever I start to like someone, I just end up not liking them a few days later..For example, the girl who I'm confused about now I used to like, but then I stopped and now I'm starting to again and stop again..I guess I find the negative things in people. Also, I always change personalities. At school, I'm typically shy. At games/parties/anywhere outside school, I'm more outgoing, so if someone tells me they like me, I'm never sure which "me" they like, and so I try to act like someone I'm not. It's just a mess. What do I do? Don't say be yourself. (link)
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well, it's important to realize that eveyone has certain negative qualites. usually people have more positives than negatives. it's not a great idea to just judge people on what negativities they have. instead, look at the person in general. what are her positives, negatives, interests, and things like that.
i go through the same thing too, i'm the "goodie-goodie" kid at school, but at parties, i end up being an animal. it's always good to know your limitations. just know that there are people out there who like you for whoever you are, no matter what personality you try on. people like shy people, people like outgoing people, hell, people like both. it's always good to have a balance to your ying-yang sides.
take care, and tell me how things are going.
peace
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