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I have this male colleague that I consider as one of my closest friend in the office. Everything changed when our officemates started making some jokes that he was gay. I asked him straight out if he is and he swears to me he's not. Carrying on with our friendship, we went on a drinking spree with some friends. Tipsy, he started to get touchy-feely all over me and in a joking manner he was suggesting that we go home together in his house. Eversince then, he would praise my looks and point blank flirt with me in a casual manner? I wonder now if he's doin this to erase the rumor that he is gay or he's seriously flirting with me? Either way shall I continue to befriend him?
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Sure you can still be friends with him. However, if you feel uncomfortable with anything he is doing then stop being around him. Untill you know for sure what is going on, do not let the situation go too far.
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You know what? Out of the 6 advisers, you gave the shortest, simplest and the most straightforward answer I could have. You see, its getting more complicated now, for he's avoiding me whenever I set to meet him and clear out whatever that's been bothering me. I guess I did felt uncomftable and start to stop being around him lately because for me he owe's me an explanation. Maybe our friendship won't ever go back to being normal again...But Thanks a bunch for such an awesome advice!
Sherrynikko
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