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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
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ok im in 8th grade and 13 years old...and ive had my eye on this girl since 5th grade...i gave her starbursts so she would get the point but she thought i was just being nice...shes falling out of a good relation ship thats dieing hard...and i was wondering...how long do you typically wait to ask out a girl, who's just getting out of a relationship...and she doesnt really care much for me annnnd to top it all off we dont go to the same school...but she's an amazing girl...13/m and i would prefer girls answering this Question
anonymous -
From a girl's point of view, Starbursts doesn't hint that your interested. It's a kind gesture, but we're not going to get the hidden meaning unless you make it obvious! :P
Since she just got out of a relationship, I'd give her a little time to figure out what she really wants, whether it's to stay single for awhile or scope out some new guys. But one thing I would suggest is that you always be there for her.
I know guys have heard horror stories about being in the "friend zone" but they're not all true. I've actually considered dating a couple of my guy friends because they were so understanding, considerate, and caring. So be there when she needs you, talk to her when you get the chance.
Once you see her begin to overcome her feelings for the relationship {i.e. hanging out with friends more, smiling/laughing more often, flirting with boys, etc), then I'd ask her out for a movie...maybe as a group date to limit the pressure.
Hope this helps.
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i think i made it preeeeetty obvious...but she like completely forgot about me...how do i start from square 1?
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