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MY boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, but for the last couple months we've been going out in secret while he rebuilds the friendships he lost. Innocent right? Not really.

Now, all he does is joke around about liking these other girls and then will be like "jk, i love you". He hurts me all the time. His myspace doesnt have one mention of me, his 'girlfriend' and 'best friend' but at least 5 things for this other girl. He wrote this poem to my other friend and now he's entering into a contest. He's always in a bad mood around me but act likes the perfect guy around everyone else. I understand he's trying to get his friends back, but I really want to be treated like I mean something to him. Online, he hardly talks to me! Sometimes 10 minutes will elapse before he'll say "ok" or "cool". I don't know what to do! The only time he acts like a real boyfriend is when we're hanging out just the two of us. He always sends me parts of conversations with other girls that I don't want to see and I tell him not to send it but he does anyways.
Am i just overreacting, or reading too much into it? I'm pretty sure he loves me, but all his 'jokes' about liking other girls is starting to make me question our relationship. I feel forgotten and talking to him about it makes everything worse. He just says I complain too much or im 'abusive'. I love him so much and I'm so confused! All the stuff he used to do to me he does for other people while i just stand on the sidelines being jealous.
Help!!

Reading this over i sound ridiculous but I'm really hurt and this whole this is both emotionally and physically draining.

Awww hun, sorry that you are dealing with that.

I really hate to tell you this but I think it will be best for you to just end the relationship.

It sounds like he has no idea what he wants, and that he is just not looking for a relationship right now.

So just end it with him, find a guy who will make you feel good, and you will be happy.

I know that made it sound pretty easy, and I know it won't be, but really I think you need to just end the relationship, and if after a while you still cannot get over him then maybe give him some time and then try going with him again.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks...i was kind of afraid of that, but was expecting it at the same time. you're right, he doesn't know what he wants and I hope he figures it out soon...
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