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Q: My bf broke up with me, he gave me an excuse pretty much he said well if we fight this much now how are we going to have a future and we're going to ruin our friendship. Ok it's an excuse bc I was willingly to do anything for us to not fight but he wasn't. I really love him, when he broke up with me I had to have one of my friends stop me from not starving myself or cutting myself. I can't stop crying, it just can't be over I need to talk to him. What do I say is this over u heartbreaker? lol It's weird bc we only had a few fights and stuff and we were doing good a few days ago..please what do I do I'd do anything for this boy and anything to get him back ik thats desperate..but I LOVE HIM!!!!!
well. i understand what youre going through. i did too. my boyfriend told me the same thing, and some other shit and excuses. its not good to cut and starve though. it is not going to get him back at all. i think that you should just ignore him for a couple weeks. yes, this will be hard. but for me, i finally got the strength to ignore him even if he contacts you for a couple weeks. then start talking. tell him how you feel, one more chance. if not, i know this is hard.. but you will find other guys. experience, possibly make him jealous. and maybe, just maybe, your boyfriend could come back to you in awhile. you gotta stay strong and confident and not hurt yourself. it wont solve anything, or help anything but sympothy. and thats not what you want your relationship to be based on, sympothy and fear that you will hurt yourself more if he does something wrong. imagine how he must feel ...

thanks..I tried ignoring him but I found out that he cheated on me and got together with that girl a few hours after we broke up and has been a complete ass to me for no reason...sorry just had to vent there lol well thanks anyway!!!

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x0Mel
Im melissa. Theres alot more to me then people see. i love to write, read vogue, drink coffee and tea. im thirteen and pretty mature for my age. i dont have a boyfriend. ask me a question and ill do my best to help.

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