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Okay, so I have a boyfriend. And I love him so much nobody would ever understand. Everything reminds me of him and he's always on my mind. Today he confessed that I'm all he ever thinks about no matter what he's doing. That means that he thinks about me a lot because he's always playing football or basketball or soccer or working out. My friends say I'm obbsessed, but I just can't help it. Is there anything I can do that will take my mind off of him or at least tone down my thoughts about him a bit?
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although its great to have strong feelings for a person and love them a mature love realizes that real life gets in the middle of things. what i am saying is.... you need to realize that without him you are still you. you must maintain that individual side of yourself so you dont loose yourself in him. im not saying to "act"like he is unimportant because i know how it is to love someone and think of them often but dont loose sight of life because in the end all you have is you if he ever left and you have to strike a healthy balance. besides men are more attracted to a woman that maintains her own identity and interest. continue feeling how you do. its ok to do so. just stay busy and concentrate on the important things that you need to accomplish in your life cause i he loves you now he will love you later. not to mention he'll feel proud that he is with such an interesting woman. even though he claims to think of you all the time i really do believe that noone likes to be smothered and eventually they will loose interest. so love him and adore him, think of him often. butttttttt dont make him your only hobby. best of luck hun.
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