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ok so i really want some help . please. i will rate 5's for anyy.
ok soo. i have a new boyfriend we'll call him jake (of 4 days) and i really like him. i never see him he lives like 20 min away.. different school and stuff and i havent seen him since last year at a batmitzvah where i met him. we talk online a lot and (4 days ago) he asked me out. i said yes because i like him and hes nice and blahh. however i have been in love with this one guy we'll call him chris. (these are not their real names) so i have like loved chris for a year. he was a jerk to me.. and so i TOLD myselfi didnt like him anymore but i still did. so anyways,to get to my point. i still love chris even though im dating jake. i dont want to dump jake but how should i get over chris. and chris is like a good friend. and another thing.. jake ,i feel, is always taking advantage of me and my body.. he always asks if i'm horney or what we would do (how far we'd go) or if i would send "sexy" pics of me. (if you know what i mean) and he says that like every time we talk and ugh its annoying but i still like him a lot. soo yeah id love any advice thanks sooo much and sry if this was sooo long
Well, jake sounds like the real jerk. He is obviously in it only cuz he's a pervert and nothing else. he has no respect for you and you shouldnt be with him. Plus it sounds like you guys don't even know eachother. The chris kid. If you think he is such a jerk it shouldnt be hard for you to get over him. If its sooo hard for you to get over him then he's obviously doing SOMETHING right. Well anyways point is, you and Jake should just like not even be friends. Not worth it. And chris well hang out with him be friends and if you guys hit it off and become something more you do, but if you dont you dont. Im pretty sure you are young so if you dont have a boyfriend for a bit who cares.
(Rating: 5) thanks.. im not dumping jake like i said bcus i dont want to and eventually ill get over chris.. maybe.. =]