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Hey my name is Kay....
I'm a senior in high school so I'm finally graduating this year! i love school and meeting new people. my hobbies are crocheting, math, and decorating! i someday hope to become a home decorator. I'm from Pittsburgh. i don't drink. i have a lot of experience with drugs and drinking...hence the reason i don't anymore... i may only be 17 years young but i have been through a lot in the past 4 years and i just keep getting stronger. i have a boyfriend whom i have been dating for 3 years and we are still working on some things but our relationship keeps building everyday. i love with my mom and my teenage sister..ya 3 girls in one house.. just think how that is when all of us are on our periods at the same time.. its a trip all on its own. ha ha. recently my moms new boyfriend moved in and he sucks! me and my sister both hate him but life goes on. i don't have many friends but i do have a lot of important people in my life whom i love and would do anything for.. if you want to hear a little more about me you can reach me on my IM. other than that i would love to answer any questions you have about love, sex, families, or anything else you wanna throw at me!

C ya!

advice

i am 14 year old female. ok so in the past 3 weekes my dad has been yelling at be for everything i do. like this morning he came in my room and started yellin at me saying you are so rude and you have to learn how to take care of ur self. and i was soo confussed on wat he was talkin about cause that is the first thing he said to me all day. i just wish i knew why his is yelling at me for stupid little things that i havn't even done. and i can't stand the stress right now and i am thinking of running out of my house cause my mom dosn't see how much this is hurting and she is a very hard person to talk to. and the only person i can talk to is my brother in college and he isn' around any more. so please help me deal with this cause i am ready to leave my family and go find my own place.

please help please


the helpless

well, what i think is that you should keep trying to talk to your mom because evantually shell want to know something and you will not want to talk to her, although you dont want to talk to her right now, you should. and with your dad, you cant be perfect. he might just have had a bad day. i know how you feel. my dad yells at me too all the time about stuff i dont or didnt even do. i think you shouldnt give up. you cant run from your problems. it doesnt stop or solve any thing. it may even make it worse. i would know. i ran away and it just made things decline for a little while then it increased to an even higher level and it was worse.so like i said, just keep trying and dont give up.
hope it helps.

love, Kays

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(Rating: 4) hey thanks alot. i know you said not to move but i did move in with my brother for a little while and i feel so much better. My dad has been all weird about it but i think i just need time to think about it. thank you so much i just wanted someone to talk to.
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