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Ive never really told anyone this but here goes... I am 13/f and I like hollister, abercrombie, etc., I have alot of friends, I have a boyfriend, all the usual. Anyways I dont know how to explain this but I feel like a boy. I wear girl clothes, and I like boys and stuff(im not lesbian) but inside I just feel like a boy. I think its really weird. I used to wear guy clothes and stuff but that was when I was younger. Do you guys think this is weird or what? Is there like anything I can do to fix this annoying problem? Or at least I hope im not bi... (link)
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ok if your not lookin at girls an thinking "oooh baby", your not gay or bi. chances are you are not an actual boy, born into a girl's body.(it happens)
i can understand why itd make you feel weird, but the thing is i think it's pretty normal for you to feel this way sometimes. i mean look at it like this, yes women have come a long way since the 1800's but... there's still alot to be desired. women are still paid less in many cases then men at the same job, parent's give thier sons more freedom then thier daughter's. it's also been proven by many girls who walk the street at night dressed as boys that they are safer then if theyd gone out as girl's. so it's really not that unusual for a girl to want to be a guy, and if you do guy thing's like climb trees, run with the boys, or where jeans and tee's instead of skirts and tank tops you might start to feel like one of the guy's, and if you still feel like a guy inside, even tho your dressing girly, you might just be missing, being one of the guys. if you enjoyed being a tom boy, and now your kinda forcing yourself to dress and act girly, it's just not who you are. alot of women feel like they should have been boys its mostly the strong independent types that would take on the world, just as strongly as a man....if only the world would let them.
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