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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.

he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.

but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.

i love him too much..

and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.

he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.


what should i do?

-L



Hun, I am soo sorry that you have to go through this. When I read your question I was like wow, what if that were to happen to my boyfriend and me.

So I thought about it, and the pain I would feel would be indescribable, and I am sure that is how you are feeling, so I am so sorry.

Like everyone else said, at least he was being honest, and yes the truth does hurt.

Now when he says he has a crush, what does that mean? Does he want to kiss and hug her, does he want to be with her, or does he just like her for her looks? Because you need to take those into consideration. I mean they all are hard to accept, but if he likes her for just her looks, then this will probably go away soon. But if he likes her and wants to date her....there may be a problem, and it would lead to you getting hurt even worse.

So really at this point, you need to talk to him more. Tell him EXACTLY how you feel. And maybe you two can talk it ou.

Well I am so sorry that had to happen to you...good luck with everything! If you need anything drop it in my inbox.

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(Rating: 5) thank you, super nice about it, great advice, it made me feel so much better ! :)
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