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well first off let me say that im 16f going on 17 and he just turned 18. Ok well lets see, theres this guy that i met through a friend. Well my best friend actually and she's his bestfriend to. She kinda put us on the phone together and he kinda told her that he wanted to talk to me or whateva. So ok we started talking and i grew to really like him and i guess he really likes me too. Last weekend we went out to the movies and my friend invited the guy im supposed to be talking to and her boyfriend which also happens to be the guy im talking to's best friend. Everything was going fine or whatever and me and this guy got to be real cool and like i said i really started to like him like seriously. Then the next day i was talking to my best friend and she told me that he told her that he didn't really think that we would hit it off as well as we did and he is starting to really like me but there is this other girl that is trying to talk to him at his school(we don't go to the same one)and i guess he kinda likes her too cause he told my friend that he doesn't know what he's going to do. You know whether he is going to talk to me or her. Now like i said i really do like him and all but he lives kinda far and i don't know how often i would be able to see him, and being that the other girl goes to his school he would be able to see her more. But he does have a car and if he really wanted to he could just come and see me when ever he wanted. I don't know. Well i guess my overall question is do i still try to talk to him and eventually make him choose or do just be like i don't want to cause any drama or stress in making him choose and tell him to talk to the other girl.
Relax! Let things take their natural course and see what happens. Since he's not your boyfriend and you're not his girlfriend, you're both free to talk to whomever you choose. If you enjoy his company and he continues to call you, ask you to hang out etc, then keep on getting to know him. Unless you two get serious ie: he asks you to be his girlfriend, then there's no need to ask him to choose between you and this other girl. If you start asking him those sorts of questions now it will come off as needy and that is never an attractive quality. As a general rule, the more a person clings, the faster the other one runs away. If you feel like he's pulling away, give him space and see what happens. But most importantly,relax, if it's meant to be everything will work out.
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thank u. I haven't actually confronted him about it though and i don't really come off as clingy. he calls me most of the time and whats funny is when i was writing the question he sent me an IM. And everytime we talk he doesn't act like there is someone else so do u think that things still might go my way.
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