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I am not the type of girl to just have any kind of boyfriend. He has to be my "boyfriend material". There is this guy who everytime I talk to him I get this smile that WON'T go away. Everytime I think about him I get so happy. But the thing is he is known to cheat on girls. So I know if I went with him there is a high chance of him cheating on me. And I don't want that. Oh yeah he likes me to (he says that to me, his friends, & my friends like everyday) So I guess I want to know why am I having feelings for someone that I know can hurt me and how can I stop or is it just one of those things you can't help?
Bad boys have a certain allure don't they? They tend to be attractive, charming, and complete jerks all in one pretty package. I think a major reason you are so attracted to him is that you feel special that he likes you too. Maybe you like to imagine that you will be able to change his ways and that would make you feel pretty good about yourself. You're absolutely right to think he wil cheat on you. My suggestion is to distance yourself so you won't be tempted to allow him the chance to make you another name on his list of girls he screwed over.
If you want to stop liking him, stop allowing yourself to think about him. When you start to think about him, tell yourself that he is a cheating player who isn't worthy of your affections and keep telling yourself that over and over until it sticks.
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you are so right bad boys do have a certain allure. thank you sooo much! you give wondeful advice :)
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