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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.


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im 14/f my bf is 17. he is always talking about how he wants to marry me and how much he loves me. i love him. i know you will think im to young. im not to young to know love. alright. so he got me this necklace for christmas that has a heart on it that on the front our names are ingraved and on the back it says "7 or 8 more years..." theres a story behind it...but its about me and him getting married in 7 or 8 years. then for valentines day he got me a ring. he wants to get married in 4 or 5 years now.... and he calls me his wife. like when he intorduces me to his friends he callse me his wife. and even to his mom he says hes going to see his wife and stuff. and whenever i see a baby i want one of my own.... is that normal? to want to have his kid? me and him have never had sex or anything. were really jsut good kids in love. so is that bad/wrong/weird/normal?

Yes, wanting a baby is completely normal. My boyfriend and I are basically in the same exact situation as you. He does the same things that your boyfriend does to you. The only difference is we are both 15. I have thought about having a baby a lot, and I have come very close to it. But I have come to learn that it would absolutely ruin my life, and the baby would not have a good life. And I think the main thing stopping me from having a baby, is the fact that the baby would have a bad life. I mean if you really think about it, you can't rely on your parent. I don't know how supportive your parents would be, but you can't just expect them to take care of the baby and pay for everything. So I know how it feels to have that feeling, but you need to think about the baby's life, and how it would probably not have a good childhood, and that would probably lead to a rough life for it in the future. So you really need to focus on how it would effect your life AND the baby's.
Well I hope you make the right decisions.

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(Rating: 5) yeah thanks. i know my mom would support me but she'd stress me out sooo bad. shes a SUPER christian. we even have verses on our garage. she'd make me feel really bad about all of it....
but yeah. thanks
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