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I'm Steph. I love helping people and I have a great interest in music, I play the piano well and I hope to be a vet nurse one day. I am easy to trust and whatever you say to me personally will be strictly confidential. Thanks for reading! :) x

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14/f

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. I'm finally getting tired of being second best to his friend. His best friend, I understand. But he will ditch days with me just to hang out with him and 'be bored' and such. It makes me feel insecure about our relationship. He says he misses me so much when we don't get to see each other. And he gets mad if I'm not making enough time in my schedule for him. But it's okay for him to neglect me, in his eyes. I wanna talk to him about it, but I don't wanna come off as the obsessive psycho girlfriend. How should I put it to him?

Just say something on the lines of...
"I understand (insert best friend's name here) is your close friend and you like him a lot. And I REALLY don't want this to come out like I want to see you 24 hours a day or anything but I miss being with you and it upsets me when you ditch days with me to be with him..."
Then perhaps hug/kiss him to to reassure you care!
Best of luck!
x Steph x

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