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I just started seeing this guy not too long ago, and last night at his house we were talking about sex and I asked him how many girls he'd been with, and he said 10. Then he just told me (I didn't ask) that he lost his virginity when he was NINE years old! I guess I started freaking out a little, and thought he was lying and I blurted out "How could you do that?! You were still a little boy!!" And that really hurt him and he got this sad look on his face and I just wanted to shoot myself for being so mean to him. He kept saying it was okay, but I will still never forget that look on his face...

Well later that night he was driving me home and ALL I could think about was how young his was. I don't know my feelings about it fully, but I know that no 9 year old should be having sex or even thinking about it. I don't know why I'm still bothered about this, I'm trying to look past it but every time I think about him, I think about this. I don't want to, I really really like this guy and I want it to work out.

So the question is: How do I get past this? Have any of you been in the same situation before, or similar to it?

Thanks for any and all help! I'll rate good!

Well there could be tons of different reasons why he lost it at such a young age. He could have been raped or just simply curious. He must have really trusted you because he told you something so sacred. You can ask him the story behind it or just leave it be. Personally I would leave it be. Just learn to except that it wwas a stupid mistake that he made in his life. Cait ♥

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