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ill rate 5's - sry if this is long.
ok so .. i am not the skinniest person in the world but i am on this diet and i am loosing weight. i've already lost 10 pounds and im continuing so by summer i should be able to look good in a bathing suit.
heres my problem. last summer i wasnt really comfortable in my bathing suit. i only wore a bikini becuase everyone else did and i thought people would idk if i didnt so its hard to explain.. so ithink my friends talked about mebehind my back and stuff wehn i wore one because they are like skinny as anything and theyve never had problems with weight.
i dontknow what to do.. i mean i know i am trying to get skinny by summer so i will look good. but why would my friends do this? andhow do i talk to them about it beca use i dont want to just be like so you think i look bad in a bathing suit...
ill rate fvies thanks soo omuch (link)
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Umm first of all if your friends talk about you behind your back they arent your friends, if you feel the need to impress then 24/7 they arent your friends, and you shouldnt feel the need to wear a bikini just because everyone else is. Now the other part, if your loosing weight and your not fat that means that your normal, normal looks better in a bikini than skinny, try to find a bikini that fits your body type. Try haulter tankinis, because they make you look thinner and they create an even curve. You can also try boyshort bottoms or skirt bottoms thry can be cute if you go to the right store. Or if your feeling risky and are trying not to care what people think of you, you could find a cute 1 piece. I wear 1 pieces all the time, mostly because when i swim its for swim team and i hate how bikini are hard to have fun in, you cant dive, jump, move around comfortably in the pool, and its even worse in the ocean with the currents. My thoughts are talk to your friends tell them to stop being bitches and accept you for who you are! Noone deserves to be treated poorly jut because of their size! good luck and skinny isnt good looking, most guys even prefer normal/curvy!
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