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when it comes to guys im way behind. im not so good at handling them. a lot of guys have approached me and like me.. but i seem to always turn them down.. not because i dont like them, but because im scared. theres only one guy ive ever trusted and he has a girlfriend. he said if he was single hed go out with me in a second. which is why i think i turn guys down. im scared that if i get into a commitment with a guy.. when the guy i really like(the one with the girlfriend) is single ill be taken. im also scared because my parents are super strict and i would have to hide a boyfriend if i had one. im 16 years old btw. ahh i dont know what to do. im missing out and i want it to stop. any advice?

hey, im the same way and i know that it sucks to be "saving yourself"(not in the sexual way lol) for that guy but i think that you should do what i did put him on the back burner(dont forget about him jus put him on hold), you dont have to go for that serious relationship right now but broadin you herizon and look behind this one guy. if it works out for you two in the future awsome but for now look at the other boys around and have fun! i hope this helps and good luck with everything
-kimberly

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