My name is Melissa and im 16 years old. I'm a junior in high school in a pretty small town..i love hangin with my friends and i lovvve helping people/giving advice. I was a member on here from july 04 and then when everything with site got all messed up I was forced to make a new account :( Ive been giving advice for a very long time on this site..my old user name was icey0990. I'm into sports like softball and tennis...i play on the school teams for that...i also like to play bball,swim,go walking in the woods for fun..i lovve waterfalls.. i have my own right near my house :) Ask me anything and dont be shy!
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ok i need long detailed answers for this one.... ive been in a relationship for a year and a half and im wondering some things. what is a relationship supposed to be like? how do you work out problems without getting pissed off/ frustrated? how do you have fun like u used to? thanks i will rate good for good answers! (link)
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Wow, 1 1/2 years is great! obviously your doing something right if you have been together for so long! My longest relationship was nowhere near as long as yours..but to me a relationship should consist of a balance of many areas... a balance of affection, your other interests like sports ..friends, and other stuff in your life. A healthy relationship should be one where the two of you are mostly happy ..in other words if your always arguing thats not good..but some arguements are bound to happen. when you do argue, try to keep calm and let him talk..let him say his side..then you express yourself..in the end kiss and make up about it ..or agree to disagree. its normal to get frustrated and pissed off..but to work something out and avoid frustration, try to just stay calm..walk away for a minute..etc.
how to have fun like you used to :
-go for a picnic in the park, amusement park, to the store,scenic walk, etc. think of something sifferent to do..a trip maybe..something different you will both enjoy. go outside and play tackle football, go to a football game, a drive, a walk, drive in, try something new! if you want..innbox me about both your interests and i can help you figure out more stuff to do.
:) hope i helped ya!
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Rating: 4
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thanks a lot.... relationships are hard :)
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