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Member Since: February 6, 2006
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Last Update: February 7, 2006
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well im a girl and im 15 so here it goes...to make this as brief as possible, i hate my bestfriends boyfriend...ive been pretending that i like him and pretending that it doesnt kill me to see them together for the past 3 months because i know he makes her happy and i want to see her happy...im sick of people telling me to just deal with it because shes my bestfriend and what makes her happy should make me happy, but it doesnt...i cant keep pretending i like him, ive talked to her about it a little but i feel bad and selfish everytime i tell her i dont like him...so i dont know if there is anything left to do, if so i could use some advice (link)
You do need to deal with it. It doesn't matter if you don't like him, because he's not your boyfriend. You are being extremely selfish and have every right to feel that you are. Back off and let your friend live her own life. If you are that uncomfortable around her boyfriend, try scheduling time with her when her boyfriend isn't around. Other than that, you can't tell her who to date. Unless you have a damn good reason for disliking him, like he is a rapist or something, back off and suck it up. Try focusing on your own life rather than hers.


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