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All right, I'm a relatively healthy (physically and mentally, I hope) young woman. I've never been intimate with a man. However, I've realized more and more that violence turns me on. For instance, when I see rape on TV or in a movie, I feel myself becoming aroused. When I fantasize, I always have these dark fantasies where a man is hurting me and forcing himself on me. It's not like I don't appreciate or crave romance - I do! Why am I having these thoughts though? I don't want to be hurt or violated or anything, but it just turns me on. Is it all right? Would a man be freaked out if I shared this with him? Would he take advantage of me? I've always thought I was a "good girl".

Dominatrix. Thats what it sounds like to me. Its not weird at all. Could be a phase. Dont read to much into it. And if you ever feel like experimenting, make sure a guy knows when your really saying stop and when your doinmg it for fun (role-play etc) Be extreemly careful. Best of luck xxxx

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(Rating: 5) Hmmm, I'm not really into "wielding" the power, but you're right about knowing when to stop. Thanks for your advice.
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