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Hiya, my name is Diane I'm 13. I really like this guy, lets call him Tom. Tom and I used to hangout every Friday and I mean we've kissed and stuff during spin the bottle but it has never ment anything. In november i was at my friend Joe's party. Joe was with his girlfriend, Joe's other friend John was with his girlfriend and I was just with Tom like walking around this park we went to. Since we were alone we talked alot and he put his arm around me for a good 10 minuets...until I kindof push him off. Anyway since then we've been really close friends. We flirt all the time even when his girlfriend walks by (one girl dumped him cause of that). And he tells people he wants to hangout with me, but I want him to make a move already I mean i'm probably sending mixed signals or something but how do I get him to make a move?

i think you should just make your move first..it sounds like he probably likes you if he wants to hangout with you all the time.. you said you pushed his arm off of you, so he is probably confused on whether you like him or not.. maybe you should tell him and make it clear that you do like him and then maybe he'll make the move then.
good luck with him though =) hope i helped
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