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Q: I know that my boyfriend is going to officially propose to me (19/f) sometime soon. He told me he bought a ring and that he's waiting for the right time to give it to me. I'm okay with the fact that he told me, I'm actually pretty glad about it. You see girls in the movies all the time that are pressured into going along with engagement. I think it was really respectful of him to talk about it with me, it's just that I'm not quite sure how to act when the time comes. Obviously I'll be happy, but since I'm probably not going to be surprised should I sort of pretend to be? I tend to show very little emotion and I think it might hurt his feelings if I don't appear to be happy or surprised or SOMETHING. I want it to be really special. Can anybody help me out here?

You can act surprised if you want, but I think he might know you are faking. YOu can show your happiness, but don't go to overboard. He knows that he already talked to you, so if yoiu are really fake, I think he'll know. I would be happy if I were you though. Congratulations. Good luck.

Rating: 5

thanks...I just think that I'm really nervous and I wasn't expecting that he'd tell me so it caught me off guard

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