I believe that everything happens for a reason. The bad things happen to you because God knows your strong enought to get pass it
Gender: Female
Location: South-Africa
Occupation: Secretary
Age: 20
Member Since: September 18, 2004
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The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on? (link)
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Hi there!! :o) .... His just being mean... You deserve someone who makes you happy and says nice things to you!! If you really like him try working things out by telling him you like him but it hurts you when he puts you down like that... If he keeps doing it leave him because he wouldn't be worth your time! Get someone who respects you and who makes you feel good about yourself!
Hope everything works out for the best! :o)
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Thankyou! I think you're right, that I deserve someon who respects me and makes me feel good. He is only dragging me down. Thanks!
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