~*Kristina here, you need advice, I'm here to try and help. Favorite topic, love life, social life,anything among them lines.
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
AIM: innocent1137
Member Since: March 16, 2005
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The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on? (link)
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He was probably telling you that so he could get his mind off of him being overweight. Chances are he knows he has a problem but doesnt feel like doing anything about it. Don't let him get to you. Talk to him about it and tell him that he really upset you when he told you that and see what he says. after that if he is still being a jerk then you deserve better. There's always someone better out there that could probably make you a lot happier and wouldn't criticize you but hed compliment you... thats the type of guy youll be happy with. like the quote says *Dont settle for the one you can live with, wait for the one you cant live without*
*Kristina*
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Thankyou for your sensitive answer. It really helps me when people don't answer in a mean way. I really appreciate everything you had to say. Great quote by the way!! I'll have to right that down.
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