I'm a 19 years old male from the Netherlands. I'm in my first year of studying psychology at the university of Utrecht, and plan to major in clinical psychology. I'm interested in nearly anything, so I know a little something about a lot of different subjects. My areas of expertise lie in philosophy, religion and spirituality.
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Well last night my mom and I had a fight and she said well if your dads so great go live with them so I started to cry, I sent a text message to my dad and step mom and I was like well if it comes down to it can I live with you. They havent replied and so I sent them another one about a hour ago. Still no answer my mom has been a real bitch lately and I dont know what to do somtimes I want to go live with my dad but I really dont like my mom just its my friends and the skit we are doing for the variety show that makes me want to stay. Please help.
♥ Tiff (link)
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Dear Tiff,
It would be cold of your dad not to send a message back, so until you know for sure just assume he didn't recieved or read it. Try giving him a call or visiting him, he can't avoid answering the question that way.
Also, try to realise that it isn't easy for your mother if she has the idea you like your dad or your stepmom more than you like her. If you want to solve this you may need to convince her of the fact that you love her just as much, and stop comparing the situation you have with your mom with the one you have with your dad.
You will have to decide for yourself what you value more, having a stable home situation or living near your friends. That's a hard decission, but you're the only one who can make it. Just take some time to think about it, what you need most right now and in the near future.
Take care,
Raeden
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